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Hi everyone and thanks for visiting our blog. My wife and I created this blog to chronicle our experience while raising a son with Asperger's syndrome. Since our son was diagnosed with an ASD at age 5, we've had a lot of questions. Lucky for us we have a great support network in place. And our blog gives us an opportunity to share what we've learned with our readers. We hope you find our blog informative and interesting. Thanks again for visiting.
"It seems that for success in science and art, a dash of autism is essential." Dr Hans Asperger 1906-1980
Monday, 28 May 2012
AN EYE OPENING EXPERIENCE
My poor son was devastated to hear that I had a heart problem and was in the hospital. And of course, Jacob being upset didn't help my heart relax. I found myself wondering what would happen to my wife and son if I wasn't around. Which in hindsight, also didn't help my heart much either. I found my self asking god to let me be okay, at least until Jacob was 18 years old. And believe me, I'm not that religious. I don't know the significance of Jacob being 18, because it's not like his Asperger's would be gone when he becomes 18, but hopefully he'd be better able to understand.
I'm sure other parents in a situation similar to mine have thought about the same thing. I have life insurance through a personal and work plan, but what would happen to Jacob? I don't think that he could handle it. I've seen how hard it's been for him to understand what happened to Max, so losing a parent would be catastrophic. How would my family cope? Who would run the household? I asked myself all these questions and more.
I understand that everything is okay, but it really made me appreciate the time we have together. So in honour of my new outlook on life, I'm going to take tomorrow off from work to enjoy the day at home. My experience has also showed me how lucky I am to have a great family and even though my son has Asperger's, I wouldn't change him for the world. And in closing I'd like everyone who reads this to take a minute to really appreciate the family that they have. Because we all know that any minute, our world's can change.